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Of Leaving for College, Crushes, and A Photographer …

The day I married, July 3rd, 1982 stood six years from the day my brother had died. I can only imagine what my mother’s life must have been like during the years that followed.

Instead of having a child, a son at home for three years following the August of 1978 when I left for college, my mother re-entered a house where she would live alone until she died in 1996 at the hospital in Berkeley, California where my husband is on staff.

My mother did not drive me to college. Instead she engaged a former student, one year older than me, and who was a sophomore where I would be attending.

He readily accepted, safely delivered me as he

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Afternoon Sunlight by Texas to Mexico

Of My Mother, Black Limousines and The Day I Married …

My mother was proud the July afternoon I married. The day before Independence Day, July 3rd, 1982, I marched down the aisle of the church in which my mother and her mother had been faithful members.

Though I had not joined the congregation I attended services. I had chosen membership with my father’s church. The decision had been simple enough. Couples much like my parents comprised the congregations of both churches.

The town in which the two churches existed, where my mother had grown up was

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Moment by scott.dougall

Of Mothers, Daughters and Greatest Moments …

One of the greatest moments I have experienced as the daughter of my mother was when I graduated high school. The last four years had been difficult. My father died during my sophomore year leaving my mother a widow with two children. Eighteen months later my brother and only sibling died of drowning.

On graduation day from high school I possessed the

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Pearls for Parl by StarrGazr

Of Roles, Responsibilities and Reframing the Past …

The most exciting thing about being a daughter is that of being a daughter. We are who we are.

We are defined often by the tasks with which life charges us, a reality that each moment of breathing and consciousness, action and interaction, thought and idea, imagination, shapes and reshapes.

Our life is a mixture of desires and responsibilities, each pulling at the other, neither one winning out, but each molding and altering the other.

My life as a daughter

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Park by d o l f i

Of Memories, Loss, and Johnnie Myron Weeks …

I am the keeper of memories and bloodlines in both my families of origin and immediate relations.

By the time I was sixteen both my father and my younger brother, who was my only sibling, had died. Life had severed my family of four during the span of two years into one of me, and my mother.

It was painful, the losses.

I will never know

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city: path less traveled by barliquin

Of Choice, Memories and Infinite Possibilities …

Women have been the ones in the past who collect memories. We made the pictures or engaged a photographer to make a family photo. We made sure that the children made their school pictures and kept watch until the children delivered them safely home to us.

We created family albums and scrapbooks. We wrote in diaries to unborn children that we carried, and kept journals of those experiences of the early months following the birth of those we eventually delivered into the world. Many of us still do. We have been, and are the keeper of memories.

Amid the hustle and bustle of

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Of History, Bloodlines and Memory …

Historically women and mothers have been and encouraged their daughters to live guarded lives. By guarded lives I mean not allowing love to determine the best husband, showing care with whom we associated, not allowing ourselves to find ourselves alone with men to whom we were not betrothed or married.

My mother exhibited similar actions with me. And I confess to doing the same with out daughters. These actions, though

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